Hello my name is Eldridge. It means wise counselor or something like that. Or old ruler. I like the wise counselor part. My mother gave me the name out of respect for one of her friends. I believe he was British. She said, he went before his time. So in a sense I am carrying on some of his life, too. I carry a lot of burdens. My shoulders are broad but tired.
Most people that know me call me Ridge. I don’t mind it. It helps me cipher out people I don’t know that calls me: “Hello can I speak to Eldridge?” Click! I don’t know you, or, you don’t know me.
I am blunt. I am brutally honest and not to a fault. I prefer the same in return. I enjoy the company of strong people. Alphas of the world, both men and women. I like to be around leaders. Weak people freak me out. I never know when they could snap over anything I find simplistic. But I do realize that everyone problems are their own, and measured with their own scale. So I feel your pain, but I won’t dwell in it with you.
Like you I am a contradiction. Like you I am flawed. Like you my heart has scars. Like you I need love. I will love you before you will love me. I will leave you before you will leave me. You will hurt me. I will hurt myself. I will hurt you before you are ready for it. No one is ready to be hurt are they?.
I love sex. I love the messy bits of sex, the sweat, the scent, the passion. The raw freedom in it. The involuntary movement of toes curling. The involuntary transformation of your face. I believe to truly have great sex you have to totally let go and surrender to the person. Surrender to the pleasure.
I love women. I find all women extremely sexy and beautiful. I love the shape of a woman’s body. Her lady lumps. Her curves. The crook of her elbows. The back of her knees. The slope of her neck, her breast.
I am a womanizer, and I have issues with committing to one woman. I enjoy not just sex, but I enjoy it with other women. I am upfront that I want to be with other women. Surprisingly, these days, women don’t mind that either. I will never cheat on a woman I am with though. If I am with you, I am with you entirely. I won’t marry you though. I don’t believe in it.
I love my mother unconditionally. She is my favorite person in the whole universe. She is French. I am French-American. English is my second language. But I’ve lost French over the years. My second language is now by default my first. My mother says in French, “how could you have a country when you have no language?” What the fuck does that mean maman?
These are some bits about me. Tell me some bits about you.